Spiritual Formation and the Younger Generation

Pastoral Observations from Queens, NYC

I’m encouraged by what I’m seeing in our congregation as it relates to the younger generation.

We have worked hard to offer an approach to spiritual formation that is compelling, contextual, and rooted in Christ. Here are some of my reflections on what seems to be connecting. We are seeking to offer…

1. A Spirituality of Integration and not Compartmentalization

Our discipleship approach is one that integrates all of life under the Lordship of Jesus. Our inner world, related to feelings and emotions, is not cut off from our so-called “spiritual life.” It all matters to God. The younger generation is looking for a spirituality that doesn’t split the world into a sacred/secular dichotomy. In addition to personal integration, we are seeing an openness to theological integration. Our overarching discipleship paradigm has been shaped by the great traditions of the Church. We have learned that this ecumenicism, within the context of our Protestant/Evangelical tribe, has created a spirituality of generosity that has appealed to folks skeptical of judgmental postures.

2. A Spirituality of Interiority and not Simply Exterior Action

I believe we are seeing fruit among our younger generation because of our emphasis of interiority. The iceberg is our unofficial logo, inviting people to look deep beneath the surface of their lives. Over the years, I’ve been impacted seeing how many teenagers have taken courses at our church like Emotionally Healthy Relationships. We have heard powerful stories of teens hungry to grow into their authentic self in Christ. This greater knowledge of self has created entry points to understand God and the good news of his grace.

3. A Spirituality of Brokenness and not Performance

Reaching the younger generation requires a prioritizing of brokenness. Younger congregants in our church have repeatedly emphasized the freedom they have to be honest about their brokenness. We are endeavoring to create an anti-performance culture that creates safe spaces for vulnerability. This is what our churches need. This generation is skeptical of religious performance. They are looking for communities of shared struggle and shared grace.

As we think about engaging emerging generations, we need a more comprehensive, authentic and deep spiritual framework that changes lives.

To read more about my thoughts on spiritual formation, check out: The Deeply Formed Life, Good and Beautiful and Kind, and The Narrow Path.